There are many things in which I agree with the hive mind.
I know I’m basic. I’ll admit it. I love coffee. Pumpkin spice should be available all year long. Slip on boots, vans, or converse are comfortable and can go with anything. Jackets and cardigans are my friend. Selfie-style photos with my family bring me joy. Avocados are a top favorite food. My heart yearns for the beach. I’m sure there are numerous more common concepts that I could loudly proclaim, “I love that, too!”
While reading through lists that define “Basic”, I find that I tend to dip my toes into the “Cheugy” category occasionally. Luckily, it looks like… I’m just outdated. I’ve shifted a little in style since my early 20’s, but not much. My hair length and style changes mildly over time, but always settles back into standard “me.” You know what, though? I don’t mind. I can embrace these labels because I’m finally ok with who I am. Shouldn’t that be more of the focus, anyway? Like what you like, do what you enjoy, spend time with those that matter.
If that makes you a cliche or stereotype,who cares?
This next generation of individuals have that part right. They are growing up and engaging in society “as they are” in growing numbers. The level of acceptance given to authenticity and appreciation of genuine connections is inspiring.